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Marriage, Istikhara & Choosing a Spouse
A Question Answered
Marriage, Istikhara & Choosing a Spouse
A Question Answered
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Recently, I wrote my first post on the topic of Marriage, within which I mentioned the topics I was intending to write about. However, I received a comment from one Sister who said the following:
Question:
Assalaamu-alaikum,
I had a question I’ve been wondering on the topic of finding a suitable partner for marriage.
I remember hearing a hadith on how a person is married for 4 things – beauty, wealth, family status, righteousness, but that a believer should give preference to righteousness (or something to that effect).
My question is that of the 4 things, beauty, wealth and family status are things that can be seen straight up (generally). However, the one thing a person cannot know – what degree of taqwa another person has – is what we’re told to look for.
Yes of course there are obvious things such as a person drinking or gambling,
etc that are indications. But assuming none of those exist, how do you know another person’s taqwa.
I saw this because i recently had my Nikah broken off as the guy decided he no longer felt like marrying me.
This guy seemed God-fearing, spoke about the importance of taqwa, etc. but turned out to be someone who is unkind, unjust and materialistic (at least it seems so, Allah knows best). Thus how do you know.
Yes Istikhara is a way, but I received good signs in istikhara – which I believe means God wanted me to go through this. But back to my question – how can you judge a person’s taqwa – how can anyone judge whats in another person’s heart for that is where the taqwa resides.”Answer
One of my main reasons for writing about the Salaah of Istikhara was for this reason; and I was hoping to answer the question in my fourth topic, How to choose a suitable spouse. However, I feel that the question needs to be answered sooner, and therefore, I intend to make a brief answer until that topic is discussed in detail.
First of all, the Hadeeth that has been mentioned is as follows:
On the authority of Hadhrat Abu Huraira رضي الله عنه the Prophet صلي الله عليه و سلم has said:
تنكح المرأه لأربع لمالها و لحسبها و جمالها و لدينها فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك
“A woman is married for four reasons:
for her wealth, her status, her beauty, and her religion; so
try to get one who is religious, may you be blessed.”
[Saheeh al-Bukhari: Book 62, Hadith: 5090]
In the above Hadeeth our Beloved Prophet, Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam, is informing us of the qualities a person normally looks for in a women, he then mentions to us to marry the religious women so that we may be blessed. This Hadeeth applies to anyone looking for a spouse; he or she should be looking for a religious partner and if thereafter the other qualities are found then it would like a bonus.
However, as mentioned in the question, it is usually very simple to recognise a person for their wealth, status and beauty; they all are very apparent. But how does one recognise a religious person; that one quality which we are asked to choose over all others.
There are many ways in which one can ‘try’ to determine the piety of a person and to ascertain whether he is ‘religious’.
However, before doing so, it is important to understand what ‘religious’ is and what it refers to.
Many people have the misconception that a religious person is he who has knowledge; one who talks about religion, someone who merely portrays religion or that person who offers his prayers and supplications. However, this is far from the truth.
Once a disciple of Hadhrat Ashraf Ali Thanvi came to him to ask of his advice regarding two proposals he had received for his daughter; one being from a clean shaven, not religious but at the same time very respectful and obedient man, whilst the second being ‘apparently religious’ but very disobedient, unfriendly and disrespectful. Who should the daughter be given in marriage to? Hadhrat Ashraf Ali Thanvi replied instantly that the person who was respectful should be given the daughter.
The lesson given here is that it is easier to teach a ‘human’ the religion of Islam, but it is a much more difficult matter to make a person in to a ‘human’. The person who was ‘apparently religious’ was in reality far from religion; his actions were contrary to the teachings of Islam. Whilst the person who was clean shaven was in actual fact closer to religion due to his behaviour and manners and for that person to become inclined towards religions is far easier and likely.
Therefore, apparently being religious is not the sign of being religious and one should never mistake a person from their appearance, in fact not even entirely through their acts of worship.
This principle is well taught to us by Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه when once a witness went to depose before him. Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه said bring to me one who knows you. When he brought a person to him, the man began to praise his character. Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه asked him: Is he your closest neighbour? He said: No. He then asked him: Were you his companion in a journey? He said: No. Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه then asked him: Did you carry on business with him? He said: No. Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه finally said: So, you don’t know him. He then said to the man: Go, take one who knows you.
This clearly shows that a person cannot be thought to be religious by just seeing his appearance or his apparent act of worship because being religious is far more than that. Hadhrat Umar رضي الله عنه explained that it is necessary to be a person’s neighbour, to have travelled with him or to have done some business dealings with him in order to really be aware of his true character for these are the affairs and matters that bring out the true colour of a person.
This leaves us with one final question, ‘how are we supposed to look for a religious person or what do you look for in a spouse to conclude or ascertain that they are from what the Prophet صلي الله عليه و سلم classed as بذات الدين.
Insha Allah this question will be answered when that topic comes into discussion and further explanation will be given on this matter.
May Allah give us all the zeal and eagerness to choose those who are ‘religious’ and may He give us the understanding and knowledge to differentiate between those who are religious in its true sense as apposed to those who appear to be religious. Aameen.
129 Comments »
sh.kaleem Hussain wrote @
Dear Sir,
My name is Sh.Kaleem Hussain mother name Siraj Begum. I want to second marriage with one women of following three women (sisters)
kindly tell me which one suitable/more chahat/lagan/love/better every point of view for me.
1.Raheela Mother name Zubaida Begum
2.Nila ”
3.Imrana ”
Waiting your response.
Thanks:Sh.Kaleem Hussain
fakherafathema wrote @
Asslamualaikum,
mera naam fakherafathema meri behan ki shadi ke liye mere ammi r bhaiya bahut pareshn hai,mmere walid ka intekhal last yr hoa.meri behan ki shadi keliye bahut koshish karen humlog par kuch bhi nhi hora inshallah tala waqt jaldi ayga par baji ka rishty ki baat kae jaga hoe r mashallah se istekhar se sab khush bhi the par ladke walo ko nhi nikal humlog kya kare kuch bataye
sh.kaleem Hussain wrote @
Dear Sir,
Assalam-o-Aliakum,
My name is Sh. Kaleem I want to confirm about character of Imrana mother name is Zubaida Begum.Because I want to marriage with Imrana. Kindly tell me following mentioned persons any sexual relations with Imrana which one more relations with imrana. Kindly tell me.
1. Muhammad Raza: Mother Raheela
2. Ahsan Aslam : Mother Ameena
3. Qadir Ali : Mother Bilqees
4. Aamir Hussain: Mother Ameena
Waiting your reply.
Sh.Kaleem
faisal rana wrote @
Dear Sir,
Assalam-o-Aliakum,
sir meara name faisal rana s/0 rana M shakil hai ammi ka name zahida hai. aaj 29nov ko main nay khawab main deakha kay 3 onchi onchi dewarain hain main or mearay kuch dost us par charhtay hain jab hm oper pohach jatay hain to mughay aik konay say dosray konay par jatay huay bohat darr lagta hai hum beath kar or ankhain band kar kay aik konay say dosray konay tak jatay hain. us konay kay sath hi aik chatt(roof) hoti hai sab say pahlay main us par koodta hoon tu mughay lahta hai kay woo chatt(roof) kachi hai un main 2 larkay motay bhi hotay hain main un say kahta hoo kay araam say chalaang lagana jab aakhri larka aata hai tu wo chatt dono taraf say beath jati hai or us chat kay nichay say aik ajeeb c koom bahir aati hai mughay aysa lagta hai kay jeasay kayamat aa gai ho or main onchi onchi durood shareef parhna shuru kar ayta hoon.
usi raat khawab main main yah khawab apnay dost ali ko sunata hoon woo mughay kuch deer kay baad batata hai kay tearay pass time bohat kaam hai, main usay kahta hoon kay yaar mughay sahi sahi bata haan yaar tu 2 din kay baad abroad(england) ja raha hai or main usay kahta hoon yaar yah keasay ho sakta hai aaj tu 15 hai main 17 ko keasay ja sakta hoon(asal main date aaj 29 hai). phir main usay kahta hoo kay yaar tu ghoot bool raha hai mughay lagta hai kay main marnay wala hoon or tu mughay galat kah raha hai.
( sir main pichlay 1 saal say england janay ki koosis kar raha hoon kisi na kisi wajah say kaam rah hi jata hai)
plz main bohat pareshaan hoon mughay es baray main kuch batayain).
Ms.Shaikh wrote @
Asa,
I would like to know that for marriage Istekhara has been done ,the reply is negative yet the couple go ahead & get married.
What have you to say about this.
ashfaq wrote @
i m male 25 year old pakistani , i have virgin ass,ashfaq_1198@yahoo.com,i live in karachi
safiya wrote @
assalamoaliykum,i have a problem and i m very tensed.before my marriage my parents have isthikhaar for me and they thought that the proposal is good so i have to marry.i got married and have two kids but from the 1st month of marriage me and my husband have many problems our thinking and everything is very different .most of the times he used to say that my parents are the most important thing in my life u forget about ur parents now u r my wife u have to obey my orders u just takecare of my parents so i want to ask that in islam parents of a daughter does not have any status or value the wife does not have the right to takecare of their parents.my inlaws have forced me to get money from my parents i have done that than also he is at is parents side .i dont want to create any public issue .they dont want me they are making every possible effort that i go by myself .allah have given me patience so i m going through all.but how long its allmost 3and half years sometimes i think that allah have not made a good pair for me .is i have done some thing because of which i have all this problems .sometimes i thought of dying but the next moment i thought of my childrens .my husband does not want to listen to me he just say that my parents are always right so u have to obey them .they say bad word in front of me .so u suggest me what should i do.and pray for me.allah hafiz.
md.shahjahan wrote @
i am engginearing student,but i confused i do the mba for further studides or i do the job or both plz give the ans from istikhara
baseera wrote @
assalamualaikum
mara naam , baseera he last ek year se bahut prblm me hain business start kiya tu o b thik se chal nahi raha he mere abba bhi bemar ho gaye hain aur meri shaadi me b rukawath hain matlab har tarha se mushkil me hain meherbani kar ke k istikhara kar ke koi hal bataye plz
huma shiree wrote @
i have a qution my sister’s marige is fixed and my sister’s name is Huma shiri and the boy name is Zubair is the marige is right or not please do isthekhara for me
syed babar ali kazmi wrote @
salam dear sir
i want to do som private question
main Europe main rehta haun app please muje mail kar k apna number bata dian i wait u
thxxx
aamirhassan qumrulhassan shaikh wrote @
dear sir,
salam
dear sir i have one problem in my life , sir its a personal of my life, li love one girl but she is intercast that is she is non muslim but she loves me i love her, my parents are agree with that girl but her parents are not ready for our marriage please suggest any solution thah her parents should aggree with me and they allow us to get married pls do isythekara of this thing , i hope sir u will find any solution for me
for the sake of allah do some thing for me i cant live without that girl
thanking you
AAMIR H SHAIKH
Yusuf S. Shaikh wrote @
Assalaam walaikum,
Myself Yusuf Saifuddin Shaikh, I got married to a girl named Salma Salim Shaikh on Dec. 28, 2007.
But due to some reason, she does not want to continue our marriage. She was not wanted to leave with my joint family, she wanted that I should live with her mother in her house, As he does not have any male member in her family. And she loves her mother very much. But as I am the first boy to my parents, I was not wanted to leave my family tor her, so she wanted to take KHULA, but I was against her wish. But due to her forcing, I gave her KHULA on Apr. 11, 2008. But now I want her back in my life, but I don’t what she feel for me now. And her mother is telling her to do another nikah with someone else. she is working in a good firm with good salary and now she has taken admission in MBA.
Now I am ready to live with her, in their home. Bcoz I love her and wanted her back in my life, I am ready to fulfill all his wish and desire. I want to know is it good decision for me to leave my family and go with her?, will I be happy with her in my future?, Will she be fair enough in with our relationship in future. ?
Please do the isthekhare as soon as possible, as my future depends on this decion.
And also because I have left with less time, as its nearly 1.5 months passed for our KHULA.
I will always try to keep her happy, if she wants to continue our marriage.
zeenat wrote @
I would like to know that for marriage Istekhara has been done ,the reply is negative yet the couple want to get married because they love each other what do you have to say about this, is it right and by making dua to Allah, would everything go well?
iram wrote @
Aslam-o-Alakam,
Sir i want to ask through istikhara about my brother’s marriage.His name is Muhammad Farhan Shafique.Is it more suitable for my brother to marry withen family or out side the family.B/c some one said that if he marry outside the family then this would be unlucky for him.And withen family my Khala’s daughter Faiqa Ateeq ,is how much suitable for my brother.pl. tell us we are so worried.
Dua go
iram
sameet wrote @
respected sir,
my sister s name is bushra.. she wants to marry a bohra muslim boy named sameer….his mothers name is razia.. as in our case, we are staunch sunni muslims.. her mother s name is shehnaz.. please advise us what to do..
my sis ter
Imran wrote @
As salaam o Alaikum
Dear brothers and sisters,
If your first language is not Arabic then please read the translation of Quran.
As salaam o Alaikum
tabassum naz siddiqui wrote @
Assalamo Alai Koam,
meri shaadi mein har tareh ki mushkil aa rahi hei.Jo rishte pasand aate hein ladke walo ke taraf se hamesha inkaar ho jata hei.
10 saal ho gaye hei har tareh ka wazeefa bhi kiya but kuch faida nahi hua.plz meri problem solve karein allah ke hukm se.jawab jaldi dein mere e-mail id per:-heaven.blue@rediffmail.com
dr rafiya wrote @
SIR,
I AM MUSLIM GIRL AND PROFFESIONAL I AM UNANI DOCTOR.AT PRESENT I AM IN DELIMMA.MERE LAYA ABE EAK RISHTAYA AA RAHA HAI MAGAR WOH LADKA MUJHA BOL RAHA HAI APP JOB NAHI KAROGA.MAGAR MAINE ITNEE PADAIE KEE MAI KAISAI APNA PROFESSIONAL KO CHODOGEE.
MY MOTHER NAME–GULZARA
PLESAE ISHTIKHARA KAR KAI BATYA MAI KYA KAROO. PLEASE
asmi wrote @
AOA,sir i wish to marry a person of my choice but my parents wants to do istikhara in which i m nt i n favour of .if istikhara comes in negative kan i continue to marry the one i want to .
ALLAH HAFIZ.
osman wrote @
Sirs/Madams,
Thank you for all your comments. I can see that alot of you have asked for my opinion or asked me to do Istikhara on your behalf. I am sorry to say that I cannot do Istikhara for any of you. Istikhara is a 2 Rakat Salaah that should be performed by those seeking an answer or to be shown the right path. So please do it yourself.
I am just a Muslim blogging my views and interests on this blog, i am not an Alim or a scholar who can answer all your questions perfectly or help you achieve your goals. One thing that I want to mention is that no parents have the right to force their child into marriage but should seek the child’s permission when giving their hand in marriage. There is no room for parents to force marriage on their children, which I see is happening pretty often all over the Islamic world these days. I see a world where Islam is without Muslims and MUslims without Islam.
I urge you all to refer to the Qur’an, where all these issues are discussed in details. There are translations of the meaning of the Holy Qur’an available in the markets worldwide. pick up a copy and read the Qur’an with understanding. If the Muslims did read & follow the Qur’an with understanding then Muslims would not be in such a disarray as is the case today.
Touqeer Jaan wrote @
salam mulana shaib may both perashan hoain maray ghar k halat din ba din khrab ho rahay hain ghar say bamari jati he nahi hai pahalay mary aak bahan bemar thi laqeen aab dosri bahan bemar hogai hay doctar say both ilag karwa rahay hain laqeen faida nahi ho raha ghar may tangdesti hay walad shaib ka or bahi ka kam b khatim ho gaya hay both aas k sath aap k agay arzi lay k hazar howa hoon aapmari perashni ka hal batin maray bahi ki shadi ko 2 sal ho gay hain wo abi tak shaib-e- olad nahi hain un k layin b koi dua batin k humray ghar may b nanay munay ki awaz gunjay or humra ghar b kushi say mehak utay
muhammad rizwan wrote @
aoa ,
i am mohammad rizwan mother name is amna shoukat , while i was donig bsc a girl fell in love with me, and i promised to marry her,, days passed, years passed, we faced many problems but we continued the relationship,,,,but after almost five years on 29th may 2008 she said she cant marry me…it was amazing to know that she now has no soft corner for me,cant even listen my name,,, i dont know what happened,,,people say its magic on her can you please check and tell me the truth and perform istikhara for me whether i shall marry her??
her name is sanam rasool and mothrs name is naimat bibi
please i am very very tensed, may Allah help all of us.
waiting for your kind reply.
best regards
rehman mughal wrote @
i have a qution my sister’s marige is not doingand my sister’s name is Lubna Hanif and the Mother Name is Shafqat Begam please do isthekhara for me, thanks
adil wrote @
salamualikum my name is aadil i need help i want to do istikhara but i dont know how to do my question is i am married i have two kids and i am in love i want to marry 2nd time and i dont want to live my 1st wife what sholud i do some baba is telling to my lover that if she marry me then i will live her in few months or few days so we need help what is true what will be our future pls reply in my email id salamualikum
Raheela wrote @
Assalamo AlaiKum,
Mera naam Raheela hai, maray laya aik rishta aya hai. kya mare shadi syed mansoor nami larkay sey ho jaye gi ya nahi, aur kab tak ho gi.
sam wrote @
my parents arer realy bad tempeerd and lately they have gotten worse-its horrible. this is because 2 ppl are getin 2 ther heads, my parents wer never like this. but ever since these 2 ppl hav goten close to them they have got a bad temper. i cant talk 2 them and i want to marry someone and they would never hav reacted they way they do if it was not 4 them 2 ppl shit stirer are there any duas fir dis? help.
Tanveer wrote @
Assalamwalikum, i want to marry. We n our families agreed for our marriage but they want it to be next year i am talkingto her daily n i cant live without her..so we decided to go for nikah but not going to tell our parents…and we dont want to do nything wrong…its for secuirty so that our parents will not force us to marry someone else…is this possible to do nikah twice with same girl…pls advise i mentioned email also….allah hafiz
mahrose wrote @
assalam-o-alaikum,
janab meri walda ka nam nasreen he mujhe ye maloom karna he ke meri shadi khadan mein hona behtar he ya khandan se bahar aur jis se meri shadi ho gi uske naam ke pehla hurf bhi bata dijiye.
wasalam,
mahwish wrote @
ASalamualaikum sir!
mein Abu dhabhi mein rhti ho , apka mail address net s mila.
apka pne lagta ni.
mere sath ek masala hai i think so u can help me!
meri actully magni mre popi ke bete Shabaz k 7 & hoi hai bachpan se,usne 16 ki hoi hein n polic mein hei, muje se 15 16 saal bara hai,mera dil uder ni hai n mei nahi chati ho haram mal mere gar ae.
yahan Abu dhabhi mein ek larka Amir muje pasnd ha mujse ek saal bara matrix kia huwa hai n crain ka kam hai , pakistani ha,
mein ne ami se kha per ami n uske abu ni man rae cuz hamari zaaat wato n unki gujjar,
n khandan ka dar laga huwa hai.
mein kia karo
hum dono hamare waldein ko naraz ni krna chate ,un ki kushi n duao k 7 shadi krna chate hein pr
inko maney kesein.
istakara b karaya Amir hi nikla
please madad kr dein
kuch ni tu dua hi kr de,
mein B com krti ho chae Amir kuobsurat ni yah matrix kia huwa permuje pasnd hai.
plase koi amal hi bata dein abhi ramadan b start hone walein hein
mein kud se har namaz k bad 3 time DAROD TUNJINA,DUA E JAMILA ,isha k bad
100 time:
prttti hon
n FAJR K bad
agar ap ujse baat krna chatey hein tu mera personal mobile nos hai :
00971 55 7175964.
apka bhuhat sukriya meri baat sun ne ke lye,
ALLAh ki bandi MAhwish Noor.
tariq khan wrote @
sir ,mein kaafi dino sey beemar hun beemari bhi samaj nahi ati hai buhot ilaas karwa liya hai per koi aram nahi pil raha hai muhjey 2 saal se bhi jyada din ho gay hai per abhi tak koi rasta nahi mila hai mera career pura gharab ho ta jaraha haimein pehley bhut kamjor (weakness)ho gaya hun plz aap mera istikhara kar kar koi uppay(solution) dey plz plz mein sirf aap sey ummid ki kiran liye batha hun allah aap ko kamiyabi dey
tariq khan wrote @
meri maa (mother ka naam) nazra bano hai plz aap mera iatikhara kar jo bhi asrat ho unka aap kat kar ney ki koisish karey,sukriya
tariq khan wrote @
assalam-o-laikum,
sir mujhey abhi tak koi jabab nahi mila hai mujhey jawab kahan milega kya mere email id per ya aap ki kisi website per sir agar mera email id kaam nahi kare toh plz plz aapmuhjey mere mobile per contact kar meri problem ka solution dey,sukriya
mera mobile no hai 09406965660
swaberaabenu wrote @
Asalaamualikum
sirs &mums
meri naam hia swaberaa banu bin Md Gours, mar kar naam,Zibunnisar. mere umar 31 hai. mere abba ko guzare huwe 4 saal hogaye. meri problem ye hai ke , hum aur woh ( sleem bin shiek Ali)ek dusrese bohot pyaar kar teh thei,hamaari pyaar ko 11 saal hua, pyaar ke 3 saal mei woh USA ,job ke waaste giya tha.phale 3 saal thk PH aa ther tha, up kuch bhi kaber nahi aather .usne jaathe waqt Mujse shrdee kaa vardaa kar ke mere saath ,ZENAAH kiya tha .my uskaa inthezaar karthe karthe thakk giye hon. letter,PH, mail,sab try kiya parr koyee jawwb na mila. Abhi ek larkaa ,usker naam Aadum(Hinndu se Islaam mein aaye huwe 8 saal).woh mujse shadee karrna chather hai. my kya karoon .my bohot tented mein hoon. muje bohot darr lagtha hai meri zenaah, ke barremein .muje istikhrra ki jeye . Aur muje bather yeie mei inthezarr karoon ya shadee karoon .Plz , for god sick ,Aap jawaab kar inthzaar mien hoon
kuderharfiz
SALAAM
THANKS A LOT
ashraf khan mew wrote @
ass salam ale kum maira name ashraf khan hai maire papa ka name yusuf khan hai mairi ammi ka name shehnaz hai last 3 saal se maire papa bhout pareshan hai business main bhi paisa nahi bacha paa rahe hai woh bhout pareshan rehte hai. so pls hamari madat kariye
khuda hafiz
tariq khan wrote @
respected sir,
sir meiney 4-september-2008 ko tariq khan key naam sey apni problem ap key samney rakhi hai muhjey abhi tak iska jawab nahi mila hai plz plz ap mujhey jawab dey ney ki kosish karey
ghuda affij
Kohistani wrote @
dear brother, sometime back, you had a question from a sister how to know if he she is religious or not, for it is in the heart and mind of someone.
you said Insha Allah this question will be answered when that topic comes into discussion.
could you plz send me the full answer of the same question?
thanks
Zakiya Tajwar wrote @
Asalaamualikum
sir mere naam Zakiya Tajwar (nishat) mere leya ek ristha aaye hai ladaka ka naam Syed Ameen Ali aur ladaka maa ka naam hai shaziya hai kya mere leya yeah ristha mere sahi hai ki nahe .
sariq khan wrote @
assalamoalainkum
respectected sir ,
sir, mera name sariq khan hai or maa (mother) ka name nazra bano hai sir meri problem yeh hai ki mein 3 saal sey buhtot paresaniyo sey ghir gay hun 3 saal peheley mein study , games & others activites mein kaafi accha tha munjhey sabhi person kaafi hosiyar khatey they mein kaafi acchey marks obtained karta tha magar aab meri halat yeh hai ki mein ab kaafi pechey or dull hogaya hun or 2 saal sey buhot beemar hun medicines ley raha hun lakin jyada relief nahi mil raha hai please aap mera istikhara kar batayein ki mere uper koi chakar ya kisi ka koi kara hua ya black magic toh nahi hai kukyi meri halat buhot hi down ho gayi hai or meri growth bhi rukh gayi hai please aap mera istikhra kijeye
Khudadad wrote @
dear sir, i woman asked me how could she know the man who is asking to marry him is religious, for religion is something inside some body?
munavver wrote @
asalaam o allycum
mera naam munavver afroz he aur meri walida ka naam badshah begum he.
meri shadi pichle saal june me hui he . meri shadi istikhara karwa kar ki gyi thi , magar meri shadi me bahut pareshani aa rahi hain . mere shohar ne mujhe apne paas sirf 2 mahine rakha hum achche se rahe phir mujhe meri maa k ghar bhej diya uske baad mujhe aaj apne paaas dubai tak nahi bulaya . mere sasuraal wale mere shohar ko mujhe chodne pa dabaaw daal rahe hain unhone dusri ladki doondh li he.
main apni bewa maa k paas rahti hoon mere shohar mera kharcha bhi nahi uthate hain.
hum janna chahte hain ki meri shadi shuda zindgi kab theek hogi ? hum apne shohar se bahut mohabbat karte hain ya humhe talaak le lena chahiye/
app humari istikhara kar k madad kare appka hum par bahut bada ahsaan hoga.
shukriya
allh hafiz
munavver wrote @
asalaam o allycum
mera naam munavver afroz he aur meri walida ka naam badshah begum he.
meri shadi pichle saal june me hui he . meri shadi istikhara karwa kar ki gyi thi , magar meri shadi me bahut pareshani aa rahi hain . mere shohar ne mujhe apne paas sirf 2 mahine rakha hum achche se rahe phir mujhe meri maa k ghar bhej diya uske baad mujhe aaj tak apne paaas dubai nahi bulaya . mere sasuraal wale mere shohar ko mujhe chodne pa dabaaw daal rahe hain unhone dusri ladki doondh li he.
main apni bewa maa k paas rahti hoon mere shohar mera kharcha bhi nahi uthate hain.
hum janna chahte hain ki meri shadi shuda zindgi kab theek hogi ? hum apne shohar se bahut mohabbat karte hain ya humhe talaak le lena chahiye/
app humari istikhara kar k madad kare appka hum par bahut bada ahsaan hoga.
shukriya
allh hafiz
FARAH wrote @
SALAAM MUJHAY APNA ISTIKHARA KARWANA HAI SHADI KAY SILSILAY MAIN LARKAY KA NAAM MOHAMMAD ARFAT HAI OR MOTHER KA SALEEMA KHANAM OR MAIRA NAAM FARAH GUL HAI OR AMI KA NAAM MARY AZEEM JAN KYA YEAH RISHTA MAIRAY HAQ MAIN HAI
AMNA wrote @
meri sister ki shaadi kab tak ho gi .Rishtey tu atey hain lakin final kuch nhi huta hai.meri sister ka naam FATIMA IZZAT hai aur mother ka naam FARZANA KOUSAR hai .kindly koi hal batain k kisi ne kuch kiya hua tu nhi hai
SALMA Bibi wrote @
Meri shaadi kab ho gi .Ek larka mujhe bohut pasand karta hai us ka naam GHUFRAN aur mother ka naam SHAMIM AKHTER hai batain meri shaadi is se hu jay gi aur kab tak ho gi.Mera naam SALMA BIBI aur mother ka naam MUFIDDAN-NISA hai aur shaadi k bad ki life kasi rahey gi.
Muhammad Imran Siddiqui wrote @
Meri shaadi kab ho gi.Ek larki mujhe bohut pasand karti ha is ka naam MAHWISH aur mother ka naa ANJUM ARR ha batain ma is sa shadi karo ya na karo.ma buhat pareshan hu or koi fasla nahi kar parah ka is larki ko apnau ya nahi.mujay istikhara kar ka bataya ma kya karo.please.mara naam MUHAMMAD IMRAN SIDDIQUI or mother ka naam SAJIDA BANO ha.
ZEESHAN wrote @
SALAM
SIR MAIN EK LARKI JIS KA NAM SAHAR SALEE HAI
OS SE BEPANAH PYAR KARTA HOON OR OS SE SHADI KARNA CHAHTA HOON
OS KA NIKHA HO GAYA HAI OR OS KI RUKHSATI HONY WALI HAI
OR WO NAHI JANTI K MAIN OSY KITNA CHAHTA HOON
SIR MERI HELP KARIN MUJHY KOI ESA TAREEQA BATAIN JO ISLAMI HO OR WO MUJHY MILL JAY KOI WAZEEFA YA JO AAP BHEHTAR SAMJHTY HOON
OS KI SHADI NEXT MONTH KI 4DEC KO HAI SO PLZZ REPLY AND HELP ME
MAIN ALLAH SE DUA BHI KAR RAHA HOON K OS KI SHADI NA HO MUJHY APNY GHER WALOON KI SPORT HASIL HAI KYON K MAIN NE EK BAAR APNI BHABI SE YE BAAT KI THI JAB OS LARKI KA NIKHA NAHI HOA THA TU MERY GHER WALY KHUSI K SATH MAAN GAY THY BUT JAB WO BAAT KARNY GAY TU EK DIN PHEHLY HI OS LARKI KA RISHTA HO GAYA THA
BUT WO MUJHY NAHI BHOLTI
PLZ MERI HELP KARIN KOI ISLAMI TAREEQA BATAIN JIS SE WO MUJHY MILL SAKY
OR ISTIKHARA KAR K BHI BATAIN
minal wrote @
asalamualaikum….mere liye 2 rishte hain in main se konsa behtereen hai agar 2no theek nahin to wo bhee bataein plzz…naam yeh hain……………….RIZWAN mother’s name KHADIJA……………………………………………….KHALID mother’s name FARZANA.plzz ans me on my email.thtnxxx.
anees wrote @
asalamualaikum…
Sir i want to ask through istikhara about my sister’s marriage.her name is Anees Sultana.mother’s name is Bilquees Begum.en kay liay rishte to atay hain baas photo pasand kartay……laykin baat agay nahi bhard pati ? sai duan, manathan, tavizath, wazifay, sab kuch kiya Allah ko mannany ki sari koshishaan….kain laykin samach mayn nahin atha kay karan……….mujhan istikhara kay zarya es ka haal batlayaan.plzz Ans me on my email ASAP Thanks.
amina wrote @
am a new convert,by the help of suleiman,who proposed to mi, that is after he did his istikharra in hajj,and he make me to understand that God has made mi his wife,but now,he said he is no more interested in the marriage,i feel so ahame,i dont want to leave islam but i need to know if really we are meant to be together,pray istikharra for me or teach me, am reallly sad,i want ALLAH to review to me,urgently please
Mahjabeen wrote @
i am very much worry abt my marriage….let me know when i ll get marry. my age is above 30year
Maira Manzoor wrote @
My name is Maira Manzoor daudhter of Safia Begum. I have a proposal in my relatives named Iftikhar Ahmad son of Balqeesan. I want to know, Is this better/perfect for me?
Muhammad Hanif wrote @
Dear sir mera naam Muhammad Hanif soomro S/o Sikandar Ali AAMi ka naam Fozia Sultana hai mein apni cousin se mohabbat karta hon please yeh baatao ke woh bhi mujhe se mohabbat karti hai ya nahi.
Larki ka Naam : Rabail us ke father ka naam Muneer ahmed us ki ami ka naam Naseem Katoon aur us ki caste Qureshi hai humein jald meri email pe jawab bhejo ok
wasim abass wrote @
Salam: mera naam wasim abass or omar 21saal hai. ami ka naam haleema bibi hai. main lhr me rehta hon or jis larki semain pyaar karta hon wo karchi me rehti hai. mere ghar wale khass kar meri ami nhi maan rahi or abu se baat karne ki mujh me himat nhi hai leakin aaj sham himat kar k main abu se baat kar raha hon. lekin mujay phir b umeed nazar nhi aati k wo maan jayein gay or us larki ko b maine aaj sham jawab dena hai kyun k us k bhai ne us k liye ik larka passand kar liya hai or haan b kar di hai leakin wo kehti hai k tum apne ghar walon ko aaj he mana lo to main apne ghar walon ko razi kar lon gi. mujay khuch samjh nhi aa rahi k main kiya karon
wasim abass wrote @
main chahata hon k aapdua karein abu maan jayeinor meri shadi usi larki se ho jaye jise main chahata hon
Sidra wrote @
AoA!
Sir i lv a person named Mehran n wanna marry him. But i m confused about the decision az v r connected jst through moblie. N no connection in real world. Plz perform an istikhara that should v proceed in our relation.
Thank u!
wasim abass wrote @
mera naam Muhammad Wasim Abasshai. Ami ka naam Haleema bibi or Nani ka naam Nawab bibi hai. main jis larki se shadi karna chahta hon os ka naam Farzana hai. os ki Ami ka naam Ramzano or nani ka naam Sharifan hai. kiya aap bata sakte hain k wo larki mere liye behter hai ya nahi
Sara wrote @
Asalamoalikum1kia hall hai mera naam sara mein mein bachpan se kissi se bohut pyar karti hoon woh mere bhai ka dost hai woh bhi mujhe se bohut pyar karta hai 6saal ho gaye hai humare love ko but mere ghar wale nahin man raha hai kyun k woh sindh hai aur koi waja nahin hum hum ek dosery se bohut pyar karte hai aaj tak humara pyar kabhi kam nahin huwa mujhe humesha is ka he intizar raha gay Ap sab mere liya dua karna replay
Muhammad Bilal Hassan wrote @
AOA!
My name is Muha,mmad Bilal Hassan And my mother name IS Samina Maqsood. I want to marry a girl namely Shamaila Andleeb Akram And Her mother name is Rasulaa BB. So please let me now After Istikhara , that can she is the right lady for me or can we live a happy life in future.
thanks for your kind attention.
Muhammad Bilal Hassan
SacHa PaYar wrote @
Asalamoalikum doctor ji!
mein ne ek larke se bohut pyar karti hoon aur woh bhi mujhe se zayda pyar karta hai larke k ghar wale man gaye hai shadi k liye magar mere ghar wale nahin man raha hai humarey pyar ko 6 saal ho gaya hai par aabhi tak nahin mane mein razi hoon is se shadi k liye woh bhi is larke mein koi burai nahin hai seedha hai na nasha karta hai na he kuch ghar se kam kam se ghar aacha kamata hai aap pata karey kia mere ghar wale man jaye gaye Istikhara,kia woh mere kabil hai mera real naam manal kaloo gul mohammad meri ami ka naam amna karem larke ka naam ahmed ali sher khan larke ki mama ka naam haleema hai kia humari shadi kabhi hogi kia humein bhi kabhi apna pyar miley ga kia meri zindagi ki khushiya mujhe miley gi e-mail me mein aap k e-mail ka besabari se intizar karo gi plzzzzz e-mail me thnx u so much Allah hafizz
SacHa PaYar wrote @
Asalamoalikum doctor ji!
mein ne ek larke se bohut pyar karti hoon aur woh bhi mujhe se zayda pyar karta hai larke k ghar wale man gaye hai shadi k liye magar mere ghar wale nahin man raha hai humarey pyar ko 6 saal ho gaya hai par aabhi tak nahin mane mein razi hoon is se shadi k liye woh bhi is larke mein koi burai nahin hai seedha hai na nasha karta hai na he kuch ghar se kam kam se ghar aacha kamata hai aap pata karey kia mere ghar wale man jaye gaye Istikhara,kia woh mere kabil hai mera real naam manal kaloo gul mohammad meri ami ka naam amna karem larke ka naam ahmed ali sher khan larke ki mama ka naam haleema hai kia humari shadi kabhi hogi kia humein bhi kabhi apna pyar miley ga kia meri zindagi ki khushiya mujhe miley gi e-mail me mein aap k e-mail ka besabari se intizar karo gi plzzzzz e-mail me thnx u so much Allah hafizz
SacHa PaYar wrote @
DOCTOR JI E-MAIL MEIN AP NE KIA SENT KIA MERE KO SAMJEY NAHIN AAYA PLZZ REPALY ME DOBARA KAR DE
naushad ahmad wrote @
Asak,i have one question about istekhar. i have been choosen one girl for marriage since last one year and we are very happy to get marry with each other.but before actual marrige take plance, her parent perform istekhara with help of maulana and result come nagative,after nagative result her parents denied for marriage,now i am very upset and i don’t what should i do???still i love very much i can;t live without her,but she bound to obey her parents order..can you plz suggest me??still i want to know that can i marry with her???
please guide me.
Her name is sadaf hussain and my name is naushad ahmad..plz advise…
anam wrote @
salam sir mera naam anam hai meri mother ka naam najma hai meray father ka naam aleem arif hai mera affair 3 sal se chal raha hai ek larkey se mai bht serious hoon us k sath had se zada humhara bht agay tak relation hai dono ka us ka naam umair hai app mujhy batye humhara istikhara milta hai ya nahin ya hum dono ki shadi ho sakti hai ya nahi humharey ghar waley agree hojai gay plz mujhy uska jawab day dijay mai bht perishan hoon meri id muskan193@hotmail.com hai plz jaldi jawab dain
anam wrote @
mera naam anam hai mera lover ka naam umair ammi ka najma meri or umair ki ammi ka naam shamin ara hai jaldi jawab dain humhari jaldi hojai gi istikhara mil raha hai hum dono ka
Muhammad Ali wrote @
My daughter Nausheen Muhammad Ali (my wife’s name is Aqeela) has a proposal with apparently a well educated person from good family, his name is: Taimur Ali Mirza and mother’s name is Yasmeen.
Is it a suitable match in terms of successful marrige?
This is a personal and confidential question to be replied on my e-mail only and not to be published.
Ahmed wrote @
salam!mera naam Ahmed ali sher khan meri mama ka naam haleema aur larki ka naam manal aur larki ki mama ka naam amna mein ek larki se bohut pyar karta hoon kal he is k ghar par rishte ki baat karne ja raha hoo kia yeh istikhara mein sahi hai kia yeh shadi ho jaye gi ya nahin plz mujhe 5 hours mein he reply dena bohut urgent hai mein ap ka sari umer ehsaan maand raho ga mera email par plzz i m waiting reply me soon
Sadaf Shaikh wrote @
As salam alikum,
I am in desperate need and I’d really appreciate if u could help me please. My parents are keen on getting me married and there is a proposal come my way. I’d like to know wether I should go ahead and agree for this Nikah. I tried perfoming Istekhara several times but I did not some how get any revelation. I am a lil shy in discussing this matter with my parents and certainly need ur help. The grooms details are as under
Name: Yasir Faruqi
Mother’s name: Shahla Faruqi
DOB: 8th March 1982
Will you please advice me wether we should consider and go ahead with this proposal. Or should I wait? Pls help me! Shukran. Allah Hafiz.
My details: Sadaf Shaikh
Mother’s name: Farheen Shaikh
DOB: 23rd January 1989
arzoo wrote @
ASSLAM O ALAIKUM respected sir,
mera naam Arzoo ha or meri mother ka naam Najma. or jiss larkay k sath mein shadi kerna chahte hon uss ka naam Adnan ha or uss ke mother ka naam Zaib-un-nisa. sir me istikhara kerwana chahte hon k adnan or mera rishta behter rahay ga.adnan meray ley behter life partner ha.sir me ne khd kafi bar try kia istikhara but muje pata nahi chalat istikhara kia tha or me app se istikhara kerwana chahte ho sir plzzzz muje istahara ker k bataen k wo meray ley behter ha ya nahi.
Rahimunnisa wrote @
Dear sir,
this is with reference to istikhara ki namaz ki tabir actually iam unable to know the what signifies this dream. i thnk u cud help me in asessing the what is the meaning of dream.
i had to marry one guy but little bit confused so performed the istikhara ki namaz becoz he had broken one engagement , but now unable to judge what is the meanning of that dream.
the dream was,” as if i were hanged on the fan to attempt the suicide , in the mean time was confused that , the girl (whom i had seen during the dream) who committed suicide was me or some other girl. but her hairs were just like mine and i got feared by seeing that girl hanged on the fan (commited suicide) and woke up around in the middle and after drinking a glas of water i again slept.
so my request cud u tell me what is the meaning of this dream . it means i shud proceed this proposal or leave it. kindly help me .
yours sincerely
Rahimunnisa
Sohail wrote @
ASA Dear sir My real name is sohail nasir iqbal but on my papers is jamshaid nasir iqbal ….. Sir I want to make an istakharra about my marriage I tried by my self but nothing coming up .. Can you help me please DOB#01/07/1985 my mother name seedia. The girl I want to merry to Her name is Shella Jabeen DOB#11/23/1989 and mother name Nusrat babi.
imam wrote @
my name HAZRAT IMAM my mother ZUBEDA BANO.i want to confirm about character of SHAMSHAD BEGUM mother name ZAIBUN NISHA.kindly tell me following mentioned persons any sexual relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM which one more relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM kindly tell me.
Momal Nadeem wrote @
AS-SALAAM-AULAIKUM
I WAS WONDERING IF YOU COULD REPLY ME ON MY EMAIL ADDRESS.
THANK YOU
Oranos wrote @
please perform istkhara for me if Rahmat is best for as my husband.
my mom’s name is Najiba.
imam wrote @
my name HAZRAT IMAM my ZUBEDA BANU. I want to confirm about character of SHAMSHAD BEGUM mother name ZAIBUNNISA. kindly tell me following mentioned persons any sexual relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM which one more relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM.kindly tell me on my email.i waiting for your reply.
arzoo wrote @
ASSLAM O ALAIKUM respected sir,
sir me ne app ko pehle b apni problem btai the mager app ka reply muje nahi mila.sir plzzzzzzzzzzzzz muje reply kejeay its urgent.
mera naam Arzoo ha or meri mother ka naam Najma. or jiss larkay k sath mein shadi kerna chahte hon uss ka naam Adnan ha or uss ke mother ka naam Zaib-un-nisa. sir me istikhara kerwana chahte hon k adnan or mera rishta behter rahay ga.adnan meray ley behter life partner ha.sir me ne khd kafi bar try kia istikhara but muje pata nahi chalat istikhara kia tha or me app se istikhara kerwana chahte ho sir plzzzz muje istahara ker k bataen k wo meray ley behter ha ya nahi.
maryam wrote @
i want to know that i want to marry this person would i marry him…he is already engaged and want to marry me…n break his engagement…
his name: umair zakauddin mother’s name rehana
my name: mariyam n mother’s name samina
would our parents allow our marriage happily
IMAM wrote @
dear sir,
my name HAZRAT IMAM my mother ZUBEDA BANO.I want to confirm about character of SHAMSHAD BEGUM mother name ZAIBUN NISA kindly tell me following mentioned persons any sexual relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM which one more relations with SHAMSHAD BEGUM.do istikhara and kindly tell me.
please give my answer as soon as possible to my email.i waiting your reply.
asaffat wrote @
EVERYONE: Istikhara must be done by YOURSELF. Make wudhu, pray 2 rakats, then make the dua upon a decision. You must have a decision already. If it is good for you, it will become easy for you to follow through. If it is not good for you, you will feel turned from it. You should follow the feeling since you asked for Allah’s guidance. The answer does not come in a dream.
The best way to be guided is to get closer to Allah. Your problems will be taken care of by Him if you take care of worshipping Him. Learn your religion and read the Qu’ran in your language to understand it. It is a message to you by the one who created you.
Ashrath unnisa wrote @
AOA,
Sir, I am 26 years old female i want to get married to my cousin who is my dad’s younger brothers son his name is Abdul Razak but my parents opposed it. His parents are ready for the marriage please please please pray for me and tell me how can my parents agree for this and when will i get married please help me out of this.
mohammad shafi wrote @
plz mujhe betaein k meri zindagi k bare mein betaein k meri zindagi kaise guzre gi mera naam hira sadiq hai mein janena chati hon k meri shadi kaise guzre gi mera aik beita bhi hai keya mere beite ki os k dusre baap k sath ban sake gi or woh mere beite k sath kaisa rahe ga plz urdo mein betaein
mohammad shafi wrote @
sir mein buhat omide k sath ap k paas aai hon sir meri aik baar shadi ho chuki hai or mera aik beita bhi hai jo shaks mujh se shadi karna chata hai oska naam mohammad shafi hai or oski maan ka naam hamida beigam hai mera naam hira sadiq hai or ammi ka naam salima beigam hai sir plz mujhy beatein k woh mere beite k sath or mere sath kaise rehein gy or hamri life kaise guzre gi ap betaein gy tab hi mein shadi k liye han krun gi q k meri aik baar zindagi tebaha ho chuki hai plz sir jaldi beataein.
mohammad shafi wrote @
sir mein phlye bhi ap se apni problam discass kar chuki hon ab phir aai hon sir plz mere bare mein mujhy betaein mein buhat pareshan hon jo mujh se shadi karna chata hai oska mohammad shafi hai oski ammi ka naam hamida beigam hai.mera naam hira naz hai or meri ammi ka naam salima beigam hai sir mujhy nai peta k mere sath ane wale kal mein keya hoga mujhy buhat pareshani hai mere sath aik baar buhat bura ho chuka hai ab baar baar aisa ho ye mein nai seh sakun gi meri ap se ilteja hai ap mujhy mere bare mein betaein mere beite ki or shafi ki kaise zindgi rahe gi mein sab janena chati hon plz sir meri ammi baar baar aik hi baat poch rahi hein ab aphi betaein keya krun mein plz sir mujhy jaldi betaein mein ap ko doaaun k elawah or keya dy sakti hon ap k liye hameisha doaa gu allah hafiz
naheed wrote @
Assaalmu’ Alaikum,
Motaram Mofti Sahad,main aik shaks ko pasand karit ho us ka naam BADAR UL ZAMAN ,us ki walda ka naam ZABAIDA ha aur meri naam NAHEED NAZAR mother’s name ZAIWA JAAN ha.
main nay Istahara keya k kya un ka haan say mere kie rishta aaye ga k nhi
Istahara k 1rst din main nay dream may daykha k main apne pet dog ko chain k sath lay kar ja rahe ho aur aik saaf road say main gozarti ho jo k aik way ha aur wo aik barhe say Govt bailding k gate ki taraf turn kar raha ha aur aaage aik aur wasa hi gate aur rasta ha aur ye dono rastay beautiful and greenry ha(actual mai mere ghar k samnay army complex ka aik gate ha aur us shaks ki street k samnay complex ka dosra gate ha)
2ND day main nay daikha ka paani ka pipe sahi tarikat se connect ho gaya ha aur paani tazi say flow kar raha ha.(Hakikat may b main dream walay din water k liye pipe laga rahi thi jo abhi mokammal nahi hoa tha aur raat ko main ne dream daikha
3rd day main ne daikha kmain aur meri mother dono aik Hospital type jagha hain aur waha aik adami mujhe aik blue colour taransparant band lafafa dayta ha jis k andar kuch document uar aik khaki lafafa nazar aa raha ha zur wo mujhe kehta ha aik aap shayad 11 baje ya 10 mint kam 11 bage aa kar aik lakhrhi ki aalmari k samnay ye file karna aur waha aik key chabi lay layna.main walda se kehti ho k abhi 11 honay may time ha ghar chaltay hain aut hum aik anjaan rastay per chaltay hai aur thak k ghar pohachtay ha k main waqt daikhti ho to khahti ho ye to time honay laga ha acha tha k hum hohi wait kar laytay aur hum jaldi wapis wotay ha aur wapis pohanch k may file aagay kar k aalmari kholti ho to key nahi hoti .pher main counter pe ja k kehti ho k may 11 am pe aaye ho aur waha key nhi to waha batha hoya shaks k face say u zahar hota ha k may hi late ho aur wo wall clock ki taraf daikhta ha waha 11 baj k 5 mint ha aur hans k mujh say file lay k key data ha.(meri walda ko lakwa hoa ha aur main 2 month kah un ka saath hospital phisio tharapi ka liye jaati thi)
kinly is dreams ki tabeer bata day
JAZAKAL ALLAH
WASALAAM
Nikha wrote @
Assaalmu’ Alaikum,
mera naam arifa ha main kisi ko like karti hon humri baat b final ho gi hai per masla yeh hai k meri family khti hai enggment karni hai or us ki family nikha k liye kah rahi ahi ab yeh baat last 3 month se stop ho gi hai meri family agree hoti hai per jab b baat start hoti hai koie na koie problam ho jati hai app plz mere liye dua kare larke ka naam Raza hai app mujhye e-mail kar daye Allah Hafiz
Armaan wrote @
as salaam alay kum,
mein allaha, hadees aur science ki nazar mein yeh janna chahti hoon ke …….
kya ek 27 sal ki ladki ki shaadi 39 sal ke ladke se ho sakti hai? agar haan tu kyun aur naa tu kyun?
is ka jawab mere email per de dijiye
Shukriya
Allaha HAfiz
sadaf wrote @
Asslama o alekum
meri behn hai jin ki talaq ho chuki hai abh un ka koi rishta nahi a raha ap mujhe bata sakte hai k kya wazifa para jay yah un ki shadi ho ghee,plz un ka naam Shaheen hai aur ma ka naam Zubaida—
samra wrote @
Asslama o alekum
mera naam samra Amer hai ..mein europe mein hoo mere husband abhi pakistan mein hai mein yeh pochna chahti hoo k kabh talq a jay gay kion k un k aaney mein bohat rukawat ho rahi hai aur yeh bhi k economical bhi bohat bura ja raha hai plz kuch batae…
mohammad farooque azam attari wrote @
as-salam-o-alikum
my self mohammad farooque azam attari and my mother name is let hajra khatoon and father name is abdus samad i want to marriag girls name is wazdah tabassum and mother name sabra khatton and father name amin khan. iwant to istikhara that girl is good or not for me.please give me result and do istikhara.
thanks
Noor wrote @
Assalam-o-Alaikum
I would like to know if there is someone you like then is it necessary to do istikhara? And then what if the results come out negative then can you still marry that person?
Please reply soon.
JazakAllah Khair
AN wrote @
hi, i just go thrught this website, i have alot of confusion regarding istakara… as i did istakhara for rishta and for many other reasons. but some times saw green, white color on the same time i saw some dark, black, red color, in same dream there are both signs i have seen postivie and negative and i am confused what to do? i did isthakara many times but i am unable to jusdge the answer for that? should i go for it or not?
angel wrote @
Please sir can you contact me via email?? its really urgent. I cannot write my details here.
sameena wrote @
dear sir
mera naam sameena, ammi ka naam zulaikha hai meri ammi baba meri shaadi ke liye bahut pareshan hai payamat tho bahut aatay magar kahin tay nahi hota kai aap mujhe isski wajah bata sakte. please jawab dijiye.shukriya
bhatti wrote @
assalam u alakium
dear sir ap koi achcha saa fazifa bathin achcha rishta mil jaye uk ka
meri sister uk shaadi karna chati hai phaar uk se rishty nai aatin aaatin be hai pakistani baher ke tu inkaar ho jaata hai
please reply karin merei mail phar
bhatti wrote @
istikhara kar din shaadi nai ho rahe sister ki or
bathaain q nai ho rahe koi bandish hai 4 saal se rishty dund raye hai phar nai ho raahe marriage
istikhara kar din
uk ka rishta chati hai sister uk main buhaat saa khndaan be hai humraa saab ko maloom nai kiyaa hogeyaa hai,
ap rishty ka koi fazifaa bathtaa din or istikhara kar din
thank you very moch
shazia wrote @
asslaam elekum brother just want to know how old ur sisters r might b able to help . allah hafiz
bhatti wrote @
sister ki shaadi main buhaat problem hai har tareh ki mushkil aa rahi hei.Jo rishte pasand aate hein wo larka walin ke taraf se inkaar ho jata hei.
3 ya 4 saal ho gaye hei har tareh ka wazeefa bhi kiya but kuch faida nahi hua.plz meri problem solve karein allah ke hukm se.jawab jaldi dein
istikhara kar din shaadi nai ho rahe sister ki or
bathaain q nai ho rahe koi bandish hai 4 saal se rishty dund raye hai phar nai ho raahe marriage
istikhara kar din
uk ka rishta chati hai sister uk main buhaat saa khndaan be hai humraa saab ko maloom nai kiyaa hogeyaa hai,
ap rishty ka koi fazifaa bathtaa din or istikhara kar din
thank you very moch
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b.b wrote @
assalam u alikum
meri shaadi main buhaat mushkilaat hai ap pls
istikhara kar din or bathaa sakhtin ho ke kiyaa bandish hai
main uk ka rishta chati hon phaar rishty tu pakistani aaakar be koi jawaab nai dyetin
ap jaldi koi fazifaa bathaa din istikhara be kar din thank you ke uk ka rishtaa aajaye.
rani wrote @
slaam i hav tried so hard to find out if u do istakhara n u see black in ur dream which means no dont do it, is that it then or given some time in years to come cud that change , cud we try istakhara agian to see if our luck has changed in few years time we both r divorced and we want to get married we can wait for ever if there is any chance of differant answer from istakhara pls reply back thanks . allah hafiz
beenish wrote @
im very much tance plz if u can tell me some solution then replay me i’ll write u my problem replay me as soon as possible plzz 4 ALLAH
kishmishx wrote @
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
Please read the Quran with translation and perform salat/namaz. Perform the salat-e-istikhara YOURSELF because you are seeking guidance for yourself/your family from Allah.
We all are human beings, your best Guide and Helper is Allah, seek guidance and help from HIM ALONE. Talk to Him through your prayers, He will reply back to you inshallah!
May God help you and guide you towards the right path.
Salam
kishmishx wrote @
Use this English website to learn how to perform the salat yourself:
http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/Dua/How_to_do_Istakhara.htm
Agar ap Urdu mein namaz-e-istikhara ki hadayaat janna chahte hain toh yeh website dekhen:
http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/Dua/How_to_do_Istakhara_Urdu.htm
afg4lyf wrote @
I know that istikhara is a prayer of guidance, but can you also do it for knowledge of somfin, like i know knowledge of sumfin comes under being guided, but yani i mean weather you can pray to see the truth in somfin? like wheather someone is cheating you, you are trying to see a persons (someone important in family i.e. wife/husband) intentions, weather its bad and shifty behind your back? wot if you just wana know if they are acting the whole time? and only married with you for a particular reason? can you do istikhara of knowledge?
almas wrote @
assalamwalekum, mujhe yeh puchna tha ki main 6 saalo se kisi ko pasand karti ho aap istekhara karke bata sakte kya yeh mere liye sahi hai ya nahi aur wazaif ya dua bataiye jise meri problem solve ho sake pls reply as earliest
woman diary wrote @
istikarah is a hard think to do… but it will give a positif and god bless for our marriage
Mrs. Shahida Kausar wrote @
Mr. Humayun Mahboob of ARY Program Sitaron ki baat Humayun key sath gives intelligent astrological answers.
You can contact him directly at
HUMAYUN.MAHBOOB@GMAIL.COM or check through His facebook page.
ayesha khan wrote @
meri shaadi ki bhut koshish ki gai meri umer 25 saal hai shaadi kyun nahi hu rahi rukawat ki wajah ki hai aisa wazeefa batye ke pata chaley ke akhir ka wajah hai aur shaadi kab hogi
noman khan wrote @
my name is noman khan recent mai kuch ayesa ho gaya k jo hona nai tha pr muje istikhara karwana hai
ishaq wrote @
dear sir
mere kazan ka name almas fatima hy
date of birth 18-8-1987
or mera muhammad ishaq
22-4-1984
plz yeh batye k humare shadi cub ho ge or shdi k baad humari appas me bany ge yaa nahi
or hum khush rahn es ka hall
Naveel Shahzad wrote @
Aslam o alaikum, My marriage is fix with my kazan Adeela Rani and it will be on 12th December, please reply me that is it be well for myself and for parents.
if possible that what is the mean of name Naveel Shahzad
Sana bint aslam wrote @
kindly do the istekhara for me.↲Box name:waqas ibn jamil↲Girl name:sana bint aslam.↲↲If in case istekhara is not good or bad then please tell me how can we make it good. I have heard that girls can change their name also. How can i do that if the istekhara is not good.
saima wrote @
i m saima i born 18 nov 1975 early morning in lahore ,my mothr name is khalida,,,,my prb is tht i face hurdels in evry mater of life,mera koi kaam asani sey nahi hota,her kaam mein rukawat hy,rishta b nahi hota,i see lizards in my dream from last 5 years,due to bandish ,nothing hapn good easily with me,my coligue propsed me ,but now left me without telling reason ,its just bcz of bandish,,,,,plz let me knw through istikhara wil he b bab
ck ,n wil get married with me,,im v much up set ,his name is mahmud,mother name shahida,he born 04 nov 1974,in lahore ,dont knw tym of birth,plz reply my question plz
saima wrote @
i m saima i born 18 nov 1975 early morning in lahore ,my mothr name is khalida,,,,my prb is tht i face hurdels in evry mater of life,mera koi kaam asani sey nahi hota,her kaam mein rukawat hy,rishta b nahi hota,i see lizards in my dream from last 5 years,due to bandish ,nothing hapn good easily with me,my coligue propsed me ,but now left me without telling reason ,its just bcz of bandish,,,,,plz let me knw through istikhara wil he b bac
k ,n wil get married with me,,im v much up set ,his name is mahmud,mother name shahida,he born 04 nov 1974,in lahore ,dont knw tym of birth,plz reply my question plz
shirin wrote @
asalamwalekum ,
my name is shirin n i m engaged to fazil but i dont like him at all but i like sarfaraz .plz do iistakahara for me
my mom name is saira fazils mom name is sabra n person i like his mom name is sadeqa .plz do let me knw at earliest
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